If you want to be more memorable and influential in a sea of other executives, separate yourself from the pack at every opportunity:

1. Elevate the thoughtfulness, strategic depth, and currency of all your conversations. Talk more about the latest trends in your industry, and cutting edge technology. Show thought leadership.
2. Demonstrate your ability to sell ideas, build consensus, and grow business. This goes beyond showing you are a good networker and relationship builder. Your community needs to know how well you can influence key decision makers, facilitate across departments, get results, and create revenue.
3. Create opportunities to network with business peers on a deeper-level than possible in a typical monthly networking event or occasional networking lunch. Increase the percentage of people in your network with heavy business influence.
4. Upgrade the quality of your interpersonal interactions. A salesperson I know never ends a conversation without asking “what can I do for you today?” He stands out amongst the thousands of sales people I know because of the way he communicates it. He really does mean it. His customers and network know it.
5. Improve your LinkedIn profile and activities. It says volumes about you. Whether or not you have self-awareness about your value to employers, and can communicate and sell your ideas. Whether you are interested in helping others in the industry, or just want their contacts. Whether you are willing to read and comment on someone’s blog or discussion in a LI group in exchange for reading your sales pitch. I believe most LI profiles are doing more damage than good to their owners.
6. Update your clothing and hairstyle, look less generic. Be more hip. Have a professional quality picture in LinkedIn.  Free, generic business cards are out. Even your email signature matters.
7. Lastly, once you have turbo-charged your brand, create “buzz” and sustain it.

The key is to establish and maintain your brand in terms that are as relevant as possible to current business needs. Your brand needs be memorable and easily repeated by your fans. (Most elevator speeches are not.) Your pitch needs to have focus and a theme offering synergy amongst skills. Emphasize how you are different, not how you are similar. Highlight what is most in demand in the marketplace.

If you don’t groom and maintain your brand image, you may have no recognizable value to the community or a very muddled image that makes people avoid you for fear of a poor return on investment. Establishing a positive brand in the industry for future contingencies takes time and is crucial to long term stability and growth. It takes little time to damage a brand and forever to repair negatives.

Your “Board of Directors” should include:

• People from industries similar to the ones you have been in and they have been in a role that would have at least interfaced with you so they can give informed, intelligent advice.
• People senior enough that they will not be afraid to disagree with you or tell you that you are missing a point and they are also senior enough that they are credible to you and offer wisdom you may not yet have had the chance to learn.
• No one on your board should be family, spouse, or significant other although these people will offer some insight about how you fit in a company culturally based on what you bitch about when you get home at night.
• A former customer.
• A former direct supervisor or someone who is truly senior to you on the same path you are considering and has been very successful at it. Ideally they should have evolved to a larger, more impressive company or role since they worked with you on a daily basis.
• A former direct report whose opinion you respect. Be brave enough to pick someone who has hop-scotched past your title and is now senior to you.
• One should have had your exact title, and similar business challenges. For instance, if you are currently a Product Manager focused on New Product Development, you want someone like that advising you.
• One should be a good general purpose business person with a broad understanding of company strategies you may not have yet been exposed to. If you are a Product Manager, look for someone who is a General Manager. If you are a Marketing Communications Specialist, pick someone who has risen to be Director or VP of Marketing. You want someone 2-3 steps above you in the pecking order.

See the pattern?

They need to be people who can show you how to get 33% ahead in your career. They need to know enough about what you do that you will actually listen because they are giving real, credible advice that is practical on an every day basis as well as in the long term.

Here is how you use them:

• You meet maybe 3-4 times a year in a location where you can talk about company issues and politics without being overheard.
• Meet with them as a group, not individually. The synergy that comes from group think will make the advice richer and keep it focused on you instead of drifting to the personal experiences of your advisors. They will be more willing to discuss some awkward issues as a group versus when they are talking to you as a friend one-on-one because they are confirming each other’s views. The group setting makes it easier to deliver those topics in a nurturing way that keeps friendships intact.
• If you assemble the board you need to be ready to listen. If you don’t listen, the process may have backfire and you could lose credibility with some of your strongest references.
• Tell the board you intend to change or rotate members over time to gain fresh perspective on personal issues or industry trends.
• Lastly, offer to be on the Board of Directors for your advisors as needed. You will build a business intimacy that will benefit you both over your lifetimes. This is networking at its best.